Planting Positive Attitude In Self

Trapped in the work environment unpleasant?. The boss who is not fair? An increasing workload sometimes make you tired, it's hard to focus the mind and clear thinking? plus not to mention family life and other interpersonal? We tend to give responses to the problem. Response that appears related to the way we think. If a person has a negative pikiriran course will involve itself in a negative process leading to negative results. If this situation allowed to accumulate in the protracted self emerges is a negative assessment about ourselves such as prejudice, both work and co-workers, feeling worried, low self-esteem, lack of confidence which in turn can lower morale and productivity.
Avoid Negative thoughts When we finish college and enter the workforce or perhaps if you have recently moved to work somewhere new, you will meet with the environment and new people. New event will provide a new experience. Maybe you've heard a phrase "that determines your self is not what you eat, but what you think." I am reminded of Stephen Covey said in a seminar hearts - hearts with our minds, because if we think about constantly be born in the word. Environment gives us a lot of stimuli / stimulus affects how we perceive and react. Information that is not relevant or not proven to build an assumption that can be delivered prejudice. Prejudice is just guessing, make an assessment without seeing the root of the problem there. Do not until you are happy because other people want it. You are happy, successful and able to make a decision simply because you want to make decisions, achieve success and happiness you desire.
Avoid Negative Thoughts

    * Open mind, do not be like the proverbial "frog in a shell", continues to expand the horizons of knowledge learned by a lot of good reading that book as well as general knowledge required. Open to suggestions and criticism from the environment will make you rich in looking at issues from various viewpoints.
    * Avoid comparing yourself and the environment, we can start by doing a re-evaluation of our steps there might be something to be repaired. If you've convinced yourself to go with always evaluate every step.
    * Avoid the fear of failure or pessimistic feelings of low self-esteem and also avoid such futuristic thinking I must be a director or GM, etc., not a director or GM's problem but the word 'must', as should this or that. Why not start the word "I'll try" or "I'll try." Also be realistic identify yourself and recognize the environment akam help you in your career development in the future.
Learning not to worry Do something, always take the initiative to see opportunities or employment. Start with something you want to accomplish in the job, interpersonal or in your family. Try working on a new project activities and simple. Thus you will learn new skills. Do something you believe. Stephen Covey describes a successful person is one who always tried to giigih create a case to reach the goal in his book of the seven habits of highly effective people.
Self Presentation Potential positive attitude in us actually have existed, only "if the self we want to develop a positive attitude or not. There are people who pay attention and someone who is less concerned about the appearance myself. One of the development of positive attitudes to the wheels through the appearance of a positive self-attitude. We will easily notice or recognize people - those around us through conversations, clothes, hair, accessories worn, etc.. As our sample was invited by a friend to a child's wedding in a five-star luxury hotel in Jakarta. Then we come to the party by wearing short sleeves are dull colored and patterned casual / relaxed and wearing sandals. Arriving at your destination location to see many people who attended the event there is a woman's man, a man wearing a batik shirt and wearing a jacket as well as a woman wearing an elegant evening gown. How would you feel?. I feel confident as anything cool you will feel guilty or may feel inferior. Similarly, how the feeling of the environment around the party, your friends? Try to banyangkan if the situation behind, your best clothes with a jacket or shirt batik? how you feel and how you look at the environment. You'll feel full confident and positive. That level of influence in shaping the appearance of a positive attitude and your emotions. Neither is closely related to your career advancement in the office. If we do a presentation about a project working with the leaders with a messy hair or maybe with clothes that are "tangled". how the perception that all meeting participants see yourself? Are they really interested in hearing your presentation?
By providing a moment of time by having a positive attitude appearance. You are your chances of getting attention and a career in the future.
There are several things you can do to develop and shape the appearance of a positive self-attitude:

    * With that haircut, can be done with a cut that by yourself.
    * Smart color shirt and pants or Stellan will apply
    * Consider gathering the types of clothing according to events
    * Shown not neatly matted
    * Use accessories like - watches, bracelets and chains (for women), Haruman and others.
    * Pay attention to your style, such as how to walk, talk, laugh and facial expression, and note also fun face, looked advice, nail, skin and so forth.
    * Sprinkle a positive smile to the environment
The demand for appearance of course be adjusted to the norms prevailing in the environment where you are. Who need to remember to display the attitude of your personal appearance has made the communication.
Maintain a positive attitude You can because you will be really - really trying. According to Kermit W. Lueck in a research he manemukan there are four factors that determine the success of intelligence, knowledge, skills and personal attitudes. In this he found 93% of the successful person from a personal attitude, the attitude remains willing to try, do not complain, stay afloat, struggling patient.
Always Thankful Instill a sense of gratitude in yourself can you begin to appreciate every result you have done. Always be grateful for what you've got so far to make your life easier and happy.
Finally I would like to say we're going to be big if we want to be great, because one just would be great as for what he thinks. We are free to choose and there is no limit that determines our success.